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on being a blogger…

Friday, April 18th, 2008

How is a post inspired? Where do the seeds of thought that blossom into these very words come from?

The seeds

• I have a student in my class that is currently on a very unhealthy diet. I know that I cannot convince her to get off of it without replacing it in some way. I hunt down my copy of Anthony Robbin’s ‘Unlimited Power : The New Science Of Personal Achievement‘ because I remember that it has a very well executed, healthy eating strategy. I find the book and it has a few paper bookmarks in it from a couple decades ago. From the page with the first bookmark:

… you will enrich your world and enrich your work if you bring to it the same curiosity and vitality you bring to your play.

• I read Claudia Ceraso’s insightful post, Blogging So Far , (I like her blogger’s view of Google). I realize that like Claudia, I too have had my blog for 1 year. I follow the links and come across a few “5 reasons I blog” posts… not my kind of post to write, but interesting to read. [From Claudia's post]

A blog is a learning engine
A node in your PLE (personal learning environment ). A virtual zone of proximal development . Learning happens when you connect to other people (other, meaning diverse , not just a group of different people). Reading alone with my books is half way to learning. I need to ask. If the author cannot be consulted anymore, I’d much rather find what their readers are writing in blogs. Always connecting, constructing, learning.

• I re-read Christopher D. Sessums’ How Do Educators Learn Successful Practices Using Social Media/Social Software? and I comment: [Exerpt from the comment]

In my attempt to (im)migrate into a web2.0 user/participant it has been the informal learning that has been most beneficial/rewarding. For example, your post: Competing Paradigms and Educational Reform struck a chord with me almost a year ago, and prompted me to quote you on my fledgeling blog. It was one of a number of influences that has made me questions my practice and the practice of schools.

I am now trying to bring Science Alive for my students in a way I never dreamed I could before… But this did not come from any formal community. It came from a loosely bound community of learners, unequally nurturing and feeding off of each other. It came from a digital web-path of hyperlinks which has helped construct meaning and relationships not easily discovered in a linear learning environment.

I think it is the informal learning experiences: the resourceful, interest-driven meandering between, among and within more formal communities/conferences/platforms and collaboration opportunities that has been most meaningful to me.

In essence I have become an empowered learner!

… This comment isn’t just another seed, it is the roots. It is what this post is about. It is why I blog.

The gardening

I start to make the connections between these seedling ideas.

• ‘Vitality‘. My blog is not work, it is play. Play from which I have the benefit of enhancing what I do in my classroom, in my daily job… which in turn provides even more vitality.

• ‘Always connecting, constructing, learning‘. I haven’t been able to finish my book for our book club because I read for 5 minutes and my eyes/my brain are craving a hyperlink… the lateral shifts in thinking that help me synthesize and add meaning to what I read. I want to interact with my reading, have it engage me. (See the ‘Read a reading’ section of Claudia’s post.)

• ‘An empowered learner‘. I choose. I link. I follow links. I follow my own agenda. I change my agenda because something interests me now. I change my mind. ‘I’ control my learning… and I have never in my life enjoyed learning as much as I have since I started truly ‘blogging’ a few months ago.

The bloom

So how is a post inspired? I find seeds of inspiration, let them germinate in my mind, and a new post has blossomed.



“Because we all need to take a stand…”

Today is Stop Cyberbullying Day – Friday March 30th, 2007

Here is a great site.

Originally posted: March 30th, 2007

Reflection upon re-reading and re-posting:

This kind of learning is so rich, and it is so diametrically opposed to traditional school learning.

Hyperlinks bring learning alive for me… they give me choice. How do we give students choice about their learning in school? How do we empower them as learners?

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Comments from my original post:

  1. I’ve also just found a great post on Anne Davis site, http://anne.teachesme.com/2007/03/28/student-to-student-blogging- – with a list of questions for novice bloggers to ask experienced bloggers.

    Emma Duke-WilliamsEmma Duke-Williams on Friday, 30 March 2007, 17:38 CEST 

  2. DavidArrived here to your post through the blog reactions widget. From now on, I will call it seed tracker.

    I confess I had many doubts before publishing my ‘Blogging so Far’ post. It was a kind of stream of consciousness that made me wonder how much sense would readers make of it. I was talking to myself.

    Later the same day I found this

    http://davidwarlick.com/2cents/2007/03/28/christine-hunewells-a-blogger-as-writer/

    And I simply had to leave a comment.

    This empowered learning as you say can point to so many directions, I think it is good to post about it and let others get into conversations with our thoughts.

    Happy bloganniversary!

    default user iconClaudia Ceraso on Saturday, 31 March 2007, 02:02 CEST 

  3. Emma,  Thank you for the link, I really do appreciate it!  :-) LaughingClaudia,
    How serendipitous… When I first read your post, (one of my ‘seeds’), I followed some links within your links and came across Christine Hunewell’s a blogger as writer. When composing my post, I spent about half an hour looking for it, it really was another seed to my post!
    … and here we are full circle with you, once again, providing me the link- thankfully the path is more direct this time.

    With respect to your ‘stream of consciousness’ writing… I believe that state is an ideal writing state, and that some of my best writing has come when I have written to/for myself.

    Thank you for your comment, and your wonderfully inspiring post!

    David TrussDavid Truss on Saturday, 31 March 2007, 04:36 CEST

Vandals, Vulgarity and Victims

Friday, April 18th, 2008

David Truss - NeonUntil last year, this odd negative/neon image was the only public image you could find of me on the web. In fact currently, many of my online sites still have this image. I like the photo, people who know me recognize me in it, and it was taken on a hot air balloon trip with my wife, so it has fond memories attached. But I decided that since I have been very public with my thoughts and ideas, (as seen on this blog), I would share a bit more of who I am, while on the web. Slowly but surely I have been putting photos on the web with a greater likeness to me. Now I wonder if I should go back to this image? I wonder if I should make my family photos private again? Also, I am keenly aware that at some point in the future I may need to moderate comments on this blog, and I find that sad.

Today I read a horribly upsetting Kathy Sierra post on the Creating Passionate Users blog. Kathy has been the victim of some anonymous, vulgar, sexist vandals… that have gone so far as to issue death threats. I am not linking to the actual post since, although I truly empathize with how difficult this has been for her, I don’t like the approach of the post. Kathy shares, in detail, all of the words, images and internet pseudonyms of the people that have put her in considerable distress. Personally, I think that gives the vandals too much credit/recognition that they certainly don’t deserve (I said this in one of the 1,000+ comments currently on this post).

This comes after reading Kelly Christopherson’s post Masked Commentors just over a week ago. As he states about the first comment on his school blog, “it wasn’t necessarily positive and it used a bit of profanity… I know that even these comments have nuggets that I need to mine and use to become a better leader and person.”

I must admit to having difficulty seeing the nuggets sometimes. Instead, I see the miner covered in soot.

These are filthy crimes. They are not victimless. They are not funny. They are hurtful.
Caffine Required

I got hit with this kind of abuse a couple years ago. I have a website that I go to for drawing faces in art. I used to sign my work with a pseudonym rather than my real name when I saved portraits that I created into the public gallery, (I expected the same from my students). I would use these saved images in the following years as examples of what students could do. Two years ago when I did a search for my pseudonym in the gallery there were derogatory sketches and comments that came up in the search that were directly aimed at ‘Mr. Truss’.

Maybe 3 Inseperable

Neither of these last two situations compare with the anguish that Kathy is experiencing… in fact she may very well depart from the blogosphere as a result of this… (which would be horrible, and I am saddened by the potential loss). However, these situations do make me think of the potential perils of teachers and administrators having a public face on the internet. It only takes one malicious person to be hurtful, one ‘bad apple’ to spoil the pie.

There is a saying I love to use:
“Don’t wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig likes it.”

This is fairly easy to do with an angry person… simply choose not to engage in their dirty approach.

However these kind of hurtful, hateful on-line vandals bring the mud to the fight. They hurl it at you and get you dirty whether or not you choose to engage. Combating this is not easy: It takes courage, it takes thick skin, it takes effort to choose a moral stance; to avoid slinging mud. As a result, it leaves me wondering… How do you stop these malicious people from getting the best of you? Beyond not giving the offenders any credit or notoriety, and beyond ‘turning the other cheek’, what else can be done?

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Anti-Cyberbullying Day – Friday, March 30th, 2007

Originally posted: March 28th, 2007

Reflection upon re-reading and re-posting:

I just recently referenced this post, and used the ‘wrestle with a pig’ quote in a comment on a Clay Burell post. (I would like to link to Dan Meyer’s post too- the lessons learned in any conflict are usually found in attempts at resolution.) I mention this here because I think Clay touched on the question that I ended the post with. Sometimes a fight is what is needed. Sometimes standing up for yourself is necessary. Sometimes expressing your dissatisfaction can be helpful, even healthy.

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I thought this next point was going to be the subject of a new post, but I’ll share it here now:

‘Be Careful What You Say Online!”

A few months ago my blog on Eduspaces ended up getting referenced in German, Italian, and also in the language of Bahasa (I had a student’s mom translate it for me:-)

I ‘del.icio.us-ed’ these (for myself-not shared) and in the ‘notes’ section made comments about the reference. Shortly after the reference in Bahasa, I was quoted in a Spanish blog*. I was amazed that there was “yet another reference to my blog” in another language “that I don’t understand”, and what you see in quotes is roughly what my notes on delicious said. It was meant as a private note to myself, and its’ intent was astonishment at my sudden international link-love.

Well, it turns out that I did not click the ‘do not share’ check-box. And suddenly I had a very public, and easily interpreted as flippant or rude, note about someone’s blog… someone who took that time to write very positively about both me and my blog. This person, (who remains anonymous here because I did not ask first if I could share this), found my delicious link reference and wrote me an email that stated how rude my note was… and I have to agree, “yet another reference to my blog that I don’t understand” is hardly a polite comment to come across!

Two quotes that have served me well in my life are:

Think Good Thoughts, Say Good Words, Do Good Deeds.

and

The meaning of communication is the response that you get.

My thoughts were good, my words were poor, and I needed to apologize. What I communicated was not my intention, and the response clearly told me of MY error. I have since apologized, but still feel regret for my poor choice of words. It was a very real reminder that there is an underlying responsibility for what we put online.

Stand Up!

The hidden lesson in this takes me back to my post above and what Clay and the e-mail I received can tell us: When we feel wronged it is vital to ‘stand up’ and say so! I believe that the art and skill of communication is deciding how to do this. Having said that, I think that both Clay and Dan could have handled their issue better, but who am I to ‘cast a stone‘?

Clay felt wronged and spoke up. My blog referencer felt wronged and spoke up. Sometimes it isn’t enough to ‘turn a cheek’ or a ‘blind eye’. Sometimes we need to let others know that we feel wronged. On the other side of the fence, sometimes we need to apologize and mean it… and sometimes we need to do more than that to make things right!

*[Update: Please see the first comment on this new post by Gabriela Sellart. I did not initially name her as the author of the Spanish-Written Post that I del.icio.us-ed because I wrote this after midnight and had not asked her if she wanted this to be public. Her comment is both honest, and insightful and pays tribute to the point of this reflection. Thanks (again) Gabriela!]

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A final note: Kelly’s comment on my original post brings up the point that we need to teach these life-lessons to students:

Dave,

I agree that what is happening to Kathy is completely different than what has happened to me. My suspicion is that I have a student who likes to vent and this is their forum for doing so. It is a chance to talk about being anonymous and using pseudonyms when on the net. We truly need to discuss this in our classrooms, our schools, our communities and our nation. It is important that, with the dawning of a new era in communication and “community” building, we do not permit people like those who are bullying Kathy. For someone to do such a thing is truly a criminal offense. I agree with the stop cyberbullying campaign and will pass this on to all the teachers in my school. As educators, we need to take this to our students and go beyond. There is a lesson here that is greater than any curriculum we teach – it is about life, freedom and respect. Thanks for the message Dave!

Kelly Christopherson

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Think good thoughts, say good words, do good deeds.

Peace.

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